Its not that people want to kiss GRIN's butt, its just that if you dont stay positive with constructive critism, they will not listen. When people start to demand stuff and bad moutht he developers by telling them what is easier to program, and stuff, well that pretty much stops them from listening, even if you have a valid point. That's why you see even the 'butt-kissers' making suggestions b/c the game does have flaws, very obvious flaws. But, demanding and bad mouthing the devs are not the best way of getting things fixed.