Yeah we are going through a LAN, and I have also tried through the net aswell...same result for both. Also tried with remote access allowed and disallowed and with/without password for this, also tried with a game password and without.
It just springs to mind...there is an area in the multiplayer section, bottom right with behind firewall and port No...I can not edit this part at all...from either pc?
Thanks for the welcome BTW....
Ph4nt0m